what an orientation is:

• who you’re attracted to
  

what an orientation isn’t:

• when you experience atraction
  
• how you experience attraction
• how much attraction you experience 
  

what being LGBT is:

• attraction to the same gender
  
• being trans/NB
  

what being LGBT isn’t:

• not feeling sexual attraction
  
• not feeling romantic attraction
  
• only feeling romantic/sexual attraction sometimes